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Wednesday, December 10, 2025
Visit to Woodland Spa
Saturday, December 6, 2025
Tea Out with Roslyn
Towards the end of October I met up with my friend Ros for tea. She works in a school so half term is the best time to catch her, so we had made plans for the Tuesday evening. I drove to her house and she drove us into Sheffield. She has a blue badge which meant we could park right near City Hall. We had decided to go to Pho because we both like it. So we got there and it wasn't too busy, but it wasn't too empty either, which was nice.
I had the veggie summer rolls with peanut sauce, and I had the spicy tofu curry for a change instead of the ordinary one. I've had it before and it's sometimes too spicy for me, but this time it was lovely and I really enjoyed it.
When we had finished it still wasn't very late so I said to Ros that we should go somewhere else for coffee or something, because her kids would still be awake at home and if she went home she would just end up putting them to bed and she was supposed to be having a break. She suggested we went to the Chocolate Bar which is near to Cambridge Street Collective. I've been past it but haven't been in, but I've heard it's great. So we walked over there. It's very cute inside, although it doesn't have a lot of seats. You choose the percentage of chocolate that you want. I think I had 60% and I ordered a humongous slice of chocolate cake too. I only ate half the cake and took the rest of it home for Lee and I to share later.
We had a good chat and it was nice to spend some time with one of my oldest friends. We went back to hers but by the time we got there it was about 8.50 so I just came home. When I got home Lee was about to get in the bath so I made him take my photo before I got changed. I was wearing my galaxy print dress from Topsy Curvy, with red marl tights that are excellent winter tights, and my purple and green checked cardigan. I pulled out some of my favourite boots for the first time in the season. They're from Pavers or something I think, and they're very comfy. I love the patent black of them and the detailing on the front.
Wednesday, December 3, 2025
Night Away at Thorpe Park Hotel
Sunday, November 30, 2025
Weekend with Sam
On the 25th of October Sam came to see our new house as she hadn't seen it yet. We had got the time planned with Jacqui, but she wasn't well so had to not come, which was a shame. But Sam and I had a good time anyway!
First of all we met in Barnsley to see the Bruce Springsteen film Deliver Me from Nowhere. We had already decided to do this when my mum asked if I wanted to see the film so I said she should come with Sam and I. So we all met at the cinema at 11.15 and went in.
I thought the film was pretty good. I would have liked to see more of the E Street Band but I tohught Jeremy Allen White was good and it sounded good. I'm glad we saw it in the cinema. Afterwards my mum went straight home because there was rugby on that she wanted to watch, otherwise she might have joined me and Sam. We went next door to The Botanist for a bottomless brunch.
I haven't been there for bottomless brunch before and was impressed with it. The drinks were plentiful and there was a good choice of food. I went for a vegan burger which was nice. When our bottomless brunch time was done we had a drink or two more each, I can't remember. We were waiting for Lee to pick us up.
When he did, we had to go back to the old house for something so Sam and I stayed outside in the car and by the time we had done I think I had totally sobered up. We popped into the Co op (which was weird but we used to go there all the time but not since we moved to Penistone, of course - we have new local shops!) and got some snacks and stuff and then headed back to the new house. We showed Sam round. She was the third person to stay on the new sofa bed because my mum and stepdad had stayed there just a couple of nights before and said it was comfortable.
I was wearing tights and boots - it's tights and boots season, bitches! - and also a new dress that I got off Vinted. It's a Carolina Dress Room one and it was new with tags for about fifteen quid. I love the pattern of it and think I will wear it a lot over the winter with different tights and cardigans. My boots are a pair of Dr Marten Chelsea boots that I got off Vinted as a present a few years ago. The black wears off revealing the red underneath as you wear them. They're so comfy!
Sam and Lee and I all got into comfy clothes pretty soon and sat on the sofa to watch films for the rest of the night. As it was close to Halloween we watched Return of the Living Dead and An American Werewolf in London. Sam and I shared some wine and this ridiculous strawberry cider she brought.
On the Sunday morning we went to Holme Coffee House for brunch. Sam hadn't been before so it was nice. Lee and I love it - I've been so many times since we moved here! It's my go to place to take people! I had a Halloween hot chocolate which was overly sweet so I wouldn't bother getting it again. Then I had sausage, cheese, and avocado ciabatta, with fried eggs too. The food is always great.
When we had eaten Sam headed down to the train station to go home and Lee and I went home for a bit before I went out again...
Wednesday, November 26, 2025
Pudsey Lace Fair 2025
On the Saturday after we got back from holiday we went to Pudsey Lace Fair for a trip out. Pudsey is near Leeds so not too far from our house at all. I drove us there and Lee drove us back I think. When we got there, we didn't have enough cash for both of us so I went in and Lee went to get more cash and some petrol and then joined me later. He might not have needed to come in, really, but I wanted a couple of things for presents for me for Christmas or my birthday so I needed him to agree to them.
I can't remember if I blogged it before but I used to make bobbin lace as a child and teenager but then gave it up when I got a Saturday job. I kept all my supplies, though, and in about 2012 I pulled them out again and made some little bits of lace, but nothing too exciting. Then earlier this year a friend at craft club inherited the bobbin lace supplies from her mother in law, and expressed an interest in learning to make lace. So I said I could help and pulled all my supplies out again. I have made a few pieces and really need to get my supplies in some sort of order as I have bought some bits off eBay. I still know how to make the stitches themselves, but the starting off of each piece needs some work. I've got plenty of books, though, so I need to choose one of those and start off at the beginning I think and learn my fundamentals.
But in the meantime, beautiful supplies! I have heard of the lace fair for years and am so glad I went! I will go next year, too! There were people selling bobbins, tools, spangles (those are the beaded decorations on the bottom of the wooden bobbins), patterns, threads, kits, lace pillows, and every other piece of equipment you could hope for. There were people from different lace guilds and groups, including one which meets in Wakefield so I really ought to try to go along to one of their days. There were also some other crafts on display like quilts, crochet, cross stitch and so on.
I bought a couple of small things to start off with and a tool for Catherine that she wanted. Lee joined me and we got some lunch in the hall's bar. They had a vegan sausage roll which was exciting for me! Then Lee and I went back around and I picked up some things that he and my mum had agreed to buy for me. So in my photo there are some things that I don't have yet, but will look forward to getting!
We got home and just relaxed for the rest of the day, but I did get a picture of my dress, which was an apothecary print dress from Carolina Dress Room I think, although I bought it second hand from a friend. I got a couple of compliments on it at the fair!
Saturday, November 22, 2025
Trip to Crete - Day 7
And so, to the last full day oh our holiday and a bit about travelling home. We were down by the pool sunbathing by 11am so I'm not sure if we had breakfast or not. Probably not. Hmm, but we must have gone up for lunch. No photos, anyway. My next photo is at 4pm when one of the adult cats we had been seeing around came to sit on Lee's sunbed, which was cute. I do know that during the day we finally got properly into the main pool. I said we had to just to say that we had. There were two slides into it so we went down one each which plunged us straight into the water. It was COLD. We did NOT stay in there for very long. But at least we did get in!
We didn't leave the pool until nearly 6pm, and I took a photo of the view for the last time, with the sun just starting to set over the peninsula. Then we walked to look at the cats for one last time. I don't think we saw them all but we did see the little grey mama cat and I looked at all the flowers in the gardens and took a picture of this orange one.
We got showered and went down to the bar first of all, where I had some kind of cocktail or another which was nice, and then we went down for something to eat. We then went across to the amphitheatre because the entertainment that night was Greek dancing and I wanted to see it. There were quite a lot of people watching it, so there was a nice atmosphere. There were three men playing traditional music, which sounded really good. There were four dancers and first of all they did Cretan dancing and then they had a little break and came back to do some Greek dancing. They were all really good and I enjoyed seeing them. Lee wasn't as bothered but he came with me anyway.
As we walked back to the main hotel we met yet another cat, who miaowed a lot at us, it was very sweet. We had a last drink in the bar before heading back to the room to pack.
In the morning, though, we didn't have to rush. We were told our pick up would be between ten and 10.30 so we knew we had plenty of time. I got up about 8 I think and took my final view pictures which is one of the pleasures of having a balcony, and then we headed down to breakfast. We knew we wouldn't be eating for a while so we had plenty to eat. Then we went and got all our stuff and checked out, and then went outside. We actually got picked up at about ten to ten, so it was just as well we were already waiting. We were in the minibus with two other people and then picked up three others I think, so not many of us. We got to the airport in very quick time and a Jet2 employee got us to the front of the queue and told us how to bypass other queues, which was great for my accessibility. We got through security and spent our last few euros on some Pringles in the airport.
The flight was fine. There was no one sitting next to Lee so we could spread out and have a seat between us for extra room. He was mostly asleep but I read my book and listened to a bunch of things I had downloaded. We landed, got our suitcases, and finally found the car. It was rush hour by this time which was annoying, but we stopped and Tesco halfway home to get some supplies, which helped. We were so glad to get home to the cats, though.
A bit of a different holiday for us because we just didn't do much at all. It was what we needed, though.














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